Routine is a serious threat to a strong relation. Work, kids, social contacts, sleep; without realizing your relation is becoming a boring thing and the excitement is gone. How can you keep the routine away from your relation and keep it exciting and fresh?

Change your daily routine

Are you going to watch football every Sunday or visit the gym on Tuesdays? Change these regular activities and avoid a boring and repeating life patron. Planning can be very easy and essential but don't try to arrange everything and leave some space for unexpected and mysterious ideas. Routine is good but it also kills the magic in a relation and can lead to a divorce.

Go clubbing or visit a bar regularly

You are working hard, have 2-3 kids and you are tired of this busy life. All reasons to stop giving attention for each other. Push yourself to spend more time together and the best way is to visit a bar or go clubbing once a week (and not every week the same day). Forget the daily stress, the bills, house problems and enjoy to be together.

In addition phone to some friends and go for a beer or a night out without your partner. A couple has to live as a couple but also need to see other people in their life. It's important to develop as an individual and not always do things together.

Plan a nice trip

Book a weekend in a nice hotel and leave your daily patron. Find a babysitter for your kids and give yourself the change to relax together. To experience another atmosphere and to spoil yourself with a good hotel will definitely gives a positive push to your relation.

Give your sex life a boost

Your busy life has also bad influence on your sex life. Less romantic nights, always the same time and day or no sex at all anymore. These are common things in a relation and stop this situation while you still can.

Get into action before it's too late and let your fantasy lead your sex life. Try new things, a new location or get some naughty toys in house. Surprise your partner and explore new things in your sex life.

Make plans for the future

Dreaming together and set targets is a good way to get the routine out of your life. Plan a holiday, discuss changes in your house, get married or talk about having a baby. If you feel that your life needs something new it's time to make new plans.