Have you decided to go back to dating again? Does it feel excited or anxious? If you are giving up on the dating sites and you would to start meeting people in person that is not a bad idea. There are plenty of available fishes out there looking for the one. Dating can be fun and amusing. Well you can give it a try anyway.

Have you made your list of likes yet? If no, then we suggest you do. It will be easier to identify the one, when you know what you are looking for. We are sharing with you tips for your first date. Advices which can be helpful as the first date is the first impression and you want to give a good one!

Make your list and don’t have expectations

Remember! You are going to meet people. You might have to have several dates with different people and this is just getting to know them. No rush and no need to take any decisions. Exchange general information, go to a nice restaurant and try some delicious food or visit a new bar having cocktails and why not, go for dancing!

However when you are writing your list with your Likes, make sure that is open. Avoid being too strict in case you miss a great opportunity out there.

Choose the meeting point wisely

So the day of the big date is finally here! You already shared some basic information, for example what music you like, your favorite places and so on. Now you choose the right place for it! Somewhere where both of you, you will be feeling comfortable. You may suggest a place you have visited before for safety reasons as well. Try to choose a creative place with an outstanding view, where it will inspire you to have a great mood.

Expect awkward moments

Of course there are will be moments where both of you might be feeling a bit awkward. And it is ok, it’s natural. Try to remember and say something funny. Or ask them about their favorite hobby. That might change their mood and start talking about things they like. And awkward moments goodbye!

Find interesting things to say

Like we have mentioned above, it might be a good idea to think of interesting subjects to talk about and keep it amusing for the rest of the evening. You may ask them their favorite hobbies or their job. Even previous experiences, life theories.

Change locations if you have been there before

If you have been in the dating game for quite some time try and change the locations you are visiting. Visiting different places can keep your date interested. Besides being in various environments can be a subject to discuss with your date, in case you are out of conversation.

Be yourself!

Showing your true self and intentions will attract the right ones in your life. Same with dating don’t hesitate to speak your mind, however be nice and kind. Be bold about what you want. Listen to your date carefully, because every detail counts and it can also be a sign indicating their personality.

Get to know them

Try to find out as many information as you can about them. Listen to what they say and make your own judgment. Find out what happened in their life so you have a better understanding of their behaviour.

Call it early if you think it’s not going well

There will be times when your date will have intentions that might not reflect yours and what you really want. Do not be shy to tolerate it and do not hesitate to say good night. Just don’t tell them you are going to the restroom and damp them without saying goodbye!

Who’s paying?

That is a good question! Women expect their male date to pay the bill. He has to be a gentleman right? Nowadays though when women are demanding the same rights men have, a man might expect to share the bill with his date. It doesn’t matter who is paying, just go with the flow and enjoy your date.

We hope all the above tips will help you to have an amazing date and to make it work for your happiness. And don’t forget, you might not meet the one from the start. Keep looking out there.